You can help support your loved one with Alzheimer’s by learning more about how the condition unfolds.
The stages don't always fall into neat boxes, and the symptoms might vary -- but they can be a guide and help you plan for your friend or relative's care.
Stage 1: Normal Outward Behavior
When your loved one is in this early phase, he won't have any symptoms that you can spot. Only a PET scan, an imaging test that shows how the brain is working, can reveal whether he's got Alzheimer's. As he moves into the next 6 stages, your friend or relative with Alzheimer's will see more and more changes in his thinking and reasoning.
Stage 2: Very Mild Changes
You still might not notice anything amiss in your loved one's behavior, but he may be picking up on small differences, things that even a doctor doesn't catch. This could include forgetting a word or misplacing objects.
At this stage, subtle symptoms of Alzheimer's don't interfere with his ability to work or live independently.
Keep in mind that these symptoms might not be Alzheimer's at all, but simply normal changes from aging.
Stage 3: Mild Decline
It's at this point that you start to notice changes in your loved one's thinking and reasoning, such as:
- Forgets something he just read
- Asks the same question over and over
- Has more and more trouble making plans or organizing
- Can't remember names when meeting new people
You can help by being your loved one's "memory" for him, making sure he pays bills and gets to appointments on time. You can also suggest he ease stress by retiring from work and putting his legal and financial affairs in order.
Stage 4: Moderate Decline
During this period, the problems in thinking and reasoning that you noticed in stage 3 get more obvious, and new issues appear. Your friend or family member might:
- Forget details about himself
- Have trouble putting the right date and amount on a check
- Forget what month or season it is
- Have trouble cooking meals or even ordering from a menu
You can help with everyday chores and his safety. Make sure he isn't driving anymore, and that someone isn't trying to take advantage of him financially.
Stage 5: Moderately Severe Decline
Your loved one might start to lose track of where he is and what time it is. He might have trouble remembering his address, phone number, or where he went to school. He could get confused about what kind of clothes to wear for the day or season.
You can help by laying out his clothing in the morning. It can help him dress by himself and keep a sense of independence.
If he repeats the same question, answer with an even, reassuring voice. He might be asking the question less to get an answer and more to just know you're there.
Even if your loved one can't remember facts and details, he might still be able to tell a story. Invite him to use his imagination at those times.
Stage 6: Severe Decline
As Alzheimer's progresses, your loved one might recognize faces but forget names. He might also mistake a person for someone else, for instance, thinking his wife is his mother. Delusions might set in, such as thinking he needs to go to work even though he no longer has a job.
You might need to help him go to the bathroom. It might be hard to talk about, but you can still connect with him through the senses with things of which are familiar to him.
Many people with Alzheimer's love hearing a favorite song in music, being read to from a familiar book, or looking over old photos.
Stage 7: Very Severe Decline
Many basic abilities in a person with Alzheimer's, such as eating, walking, and sitting up, fade during this period. You can stay involved by feeding your loved one with soft, easy-to-swallow food, helping him use a spoon, and making sure he drinks. This is important, as many people at this stage can no longer tell when they're thirsty.
The most important thing that you can do as a caregiver or loved one is to provide endless love and never ending patience. As Alzheimer's disease progresses he won’t be in this world much longer. As he gets ready to leave this world the love that he feels from those around him will make his passing much more peaceful for all involved.